Sometimes I think my life is like a box of chocolates, I never know what is going to come about during my day. Things are always changing at my house usually chaos. I am from a blended family and I am trying to blend my own family. This can be trying on your relationship with your lover. You have to remember the reasons why you are with that person and if you really love your lover, then you must be willing to work out any issues. You must discuss issues calmly and as rationally as possible. Although when blending families this can be difficult, because emotion always comes into play. I find it helpful to write things down that I feel. I usually write him letter. Even if i never give it to him. This way I can pick out the most important points and things that I can talk about without getting emotional. Then we talk somewhere and sometime when we have little or no interruptions, which for us can be hard..we have 5 kids..the youngest is a year old and the oldest is 14 years old. So we always have things to discuss.
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